At Lester and Brown, your trusted jewellers based in Poynton, Cheshire, we know that selecting an engagement ring is one of the most meaningful decisions you’ll make. It’s not just about finding a beautiful piece of jewellery—it’s about choosing something that reflects your partner’s unique style, personality, and the love you share. With so many options and considerations, we’re here to guide you through the process with care and expertise. Read on for our tips on picking the right ring, and feel free to pop into our shop or book an appointment to chat with us in person!
Start With Their Style
The first step in choosing the right ring is understanding what your partner loves. Do they lean towards bold, eye-catching designs, or do they prefer something understated and elegant? Take a moment to observe the jewellery they already wear. Are they drawn to yellow gold, white gold, or perhaps rose gold? Do they favour minimal pieces or ones with a bit more sparkle? These clues can help you narrow down the perfect design, ensuring the ring feels like an extension of their personal taste.
Think Beyond Trends
Engagement rings are timeless, so while it’s tempting to follow the latest jewellery fads, focus on what will stand the test of time for your partner. Whether it’s a classic solitaire or a ring with a unique twist like a coloured gemstone, the goal is to find something that resonates with them—not just what’s popular right now. At Lester and Brown, we’ve seen countless couples find joy in pieces that feel authentic to their story, and we’d love to help you do the same.
Finding The Perfect Fit
Getting the size right can feel like a challenge, but there are clever ways to figure it out without spoiling the surprise. If your partner wears rings regularly, borrow one they wear on their ring finger and bring it to us—we can measure it discreetly. Another subtle trick is to involve a friend or family member who might know their size or can casually find out. And if you’re still unsure, don’t worry—most rings can be resized after the proposal. You can also check out our ring size guide for extra tips to find the perfect fit. Pop into our Poynton shop, and we’ll measure their finger properly once the big moment has passed.
Setting A Budget That Works For You
Getting the size right can feel like a challenge, but there are clever ways to figure it out without spoiling the surprise. If your partner wears rings regularly, borrow one they wear on their ring finger and bring it to us—we can measure it discreetly. Another subtle trick is to involve a friend or family member who might know their size or can casually find out. And if you’re still unsure, don’t worry—most rings can be resized after the proposal. Pop into our Poynton shop, and we’ll measure their finger properly once the big moment has passed.
To Surprise or Not to Surprise?
Should you pick the ring alone or involve your partner? It’s a big question! A surprise can add magic to the proposal, showing how well you know them. But if you’re unsure about their taste, there’s no harm in dropping hints or even shopping together beforehand. Some couples love picking a temporary ring for the proposal and then choosing the forever piece as a team afterwards. Whatever you decide, we’re here to support you—whether it’s designing a custom ring or selecting from our curated collection.
Make It Personal
An engagement ring is more than jewellery—it’s a symbol of your bond. Consider adding a personal touch, like an engraving or a stone that holds special meaning. At Lester and Brown, we specialise in helping you create something one-of-a-kind. Bring your ideas to us, and we’ll craft a ring that tells your story.
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Frequently Asked Questions
1. How do I figure out my partner’s ring size without them knowing?
You can borrow a ring they already wear on their ring finger, ask a friend or family member for help, or use our ring size guide for tips. Most rings can also be resized after the proposal.
2. Should I follow current trends or pick a timeless design?
While trends can be fun, it’s best to choose a ring that reflects your partner’s personal style and will stand the test of time. Classic or unique pieces that feel authentic are always a safe bet.
3. Can I propose with a temporary ring and choose the final one together later?
Absolutely! Some couples prefer a temporary ring for the proposal and then pick the permanent one together. We can guide you through both options in our Poynton shop.
4. How can I add a personal touch to the engagement ring?
Consider engravings, special gemstones, or custom designs that hold meaning for your relationship. Our master craftsmen at Lester & Brown can help create a truly one-of-a-kind ring.
5. What metals are best for engagement rings?
The choice depends on your partner’s style and lifestyle. Popular options include white gold, yellow gold, rose gold, and platinum. Each has its own durability, look, and maintenance needs.
6. How do I set a budget for an engagement ring?
Consider what feels comfortable for you while keeping your partner’s style in mind. We can help you find stunning rings at a variety of price points without compromising on quality.
7. How long does it take to design a custom ring?
Custom rings can take a few weeks to a few months, depending on the complexity of the design. Our team will guide you through every step to ensure your ring is perfect.
8. Can you help me choose a ring if I’m unsure about my partner’s taste?
Yes! Our experts can guide you through styles, stones, and designs based on subtle clues, borrowed rings, or hints from friends and family, making the process stress-free.